Midweek: Time for a Lesson in Love

As we age, the brevity of our time here on earth becomes a greater reality. What are we doing with that time? Trying to fill it with as many distractions as possible? Checking off boxes on some self-published bucket list? Slowing down, having coffee with a friend or taking a walk? Trying to reach as many people for Jesus as possible? 

Last week, we took a very brief look at Jesus' last meal with His friends. In John 13, we see the Son of Man assuming the role of a household servant --even facing protest --to demonstrate His love and teach His disciples in His final hours. His time with them was fleeting and it was essential for them to receive what He was giving them: a lesson in relationship. And as He returned to His place at the table, He draws their attention to His actions, urging them to do for one another what He has done for them. Blessed are you if you do them (v. 17). But there is an overwhelming sadness in Jesus' words; He knows not everyone of His friends will comply. Sadly, the one who will not, his time is as brief as his Teacher's. He will not use his remaining hours wisely.   

Why did Jesus reveal the plot to betray Him? For the good of those who would continue, who would wash another's feet, humbly serve others, and even, treat with honor those who were dishonorable.

I don't want to tell you what to think about this series of events, but I would like to leave you with some questions to ponder:

- How undiscerning did the disciples have to be that they could not detect a rat in their midst? These men were doing life together, walking miles and, presumably, talking along the way, day after day. And they didn't know?

- How good of a grifter did Judas have to be that no one but Jesus could perceive his deception? Even after Jesus had passed him the bread... Even after Jesus sent him into the night...

- How great was Jesus' love for Judas that no one detected a problem? Jesus was grieved by the idea that any would be lost --but not for His own sake --He was grieved for Judas, not by Judas. No one around Him saw anything but perfect love. 

Time is precious. When we think of it that way, most would acknowledge, we have no desire to waste it. But we do. We waste it with foolishness and a lack of discernment in how we spend it or with whom we spend it. We waste it keeping up an image that is disingenuous and separates us from intimate relationships. We waste our time with bitterness over the betrayals and offenses of others.

Even in Jesus' final hours, His character did not waver. He showed love because He is love; a final lesson to His disciples.