Ezekiel, a man in exile, was called by God to speak to his fellow captives. Now, never mind the difficulty of convincing "stiff-necked" people who rebelled so fiercely against the Almighty, they had to be conquered by a fearsome enemy known for cruelty and debauchery --never mind convincing them you were sent by God and are speaking His words; but just imagine seeing some of the things God showed Ezekiel --dried bones in a valley rattling to life --and being ordered to do some of the things Ezekiel was commanded to do --eat a scroll, cut his hair with a sword. Really wild stuff, right? But God was desperately trying to get His message to the people He loved and giving them opportunity to earn the judgment that was coming their way, as well. For Ezekiel, however, his calling got real personal and even more difficult.
In Ezekiel 24:15-17, Ezekiel receives a devastating word from the Lord: God was going to take from him his wife. There's a larger point I want to make so, I'm just going to throw some of my lesser thoughts out there and you can mull them over at your convenience.
1) Ezekiel was probably about thirty years old when he was called as a prophet. He prophesied for a little over twenty years or so. It seems his wife died shortly before the end of his ministry, making him a bit more than middle-aged. I'm sure they had plans. I'm sure they expected a long life together. But, for the sake of the rebellious people of God, Ezekiel lost the love of his life.
2) God calls Ezekiel's wife "the desire of his eyes," and says He will remove her with one stroke. Ezekiel loved his wife; they had, apparently, quite a passionate relationship. And in a flash, she was gone. I spoke to the people in the morning, and at evening my wife died (v.18). The magnitude of Ezekiel's grief is hard to grasp.
3) And, his grief. Ezkiel was forbidden by God from any sort of public mourning. He was to "sigh in silence." Not only did he lose his wife for the sake of these stiff-necked people, he couldn't even grieve! How hurtful it must have been to have his love for his bride come into question!
And this is where we head back to the point I want to dig into a bit more deeply. In the first chapter of Ezekiel, God shows His prophet some pretty marvelous things, and Ezekiel fell on his face in awe of his God. (We explored this in my first post about Ezekiel two weeks ago, Ezekiel Fell on His Face.) God told Ezekiel to stand. How unworthy he must have felt! How he must have longed to hide himself! What came to me was the account of Adam and Eve in the garden, separated by sin from their relational Father, naked and hiding. God, who once walked with His children in a garden, was now too awesome, too fearsome for them to stand before in confidence. They were painfully aware they missed the mark; they were ashamed and tried desperately to cover themselves.
In thinking of the relationship between Ezekiel and his wife, I'm reminded of that initial freedom of two, meant for one another, made for one another, committed to one another, and being without shame. Our society has so perverted the gift of marriage with promiscuity and lack of commitment that it's almost hard to understand the importance of exclusivity and saving oneself for another. Only because of the covenant of marriage --a covenant made before and with God --are we able to stand unclothed in body and soul without shame before another human being. We stand before our spouse knowing that we are fully loved --not perfectly, but fully --and our most intimate secrets are safely kept with another human being who shares their vulnerability with us. There is no need to protect ourselves. Ezekiel lost the bride of his youth, the desire of his eyes, the one who stood before him unguarded and he before her.
It is only because of Jesus' work on the cross that we can stand before a holy God without shame or condemnation. Our Bridegroom will never leave us of forsake us; He is with us always. And He is the confidence we have. Our relationship with Him is symbolized in the covenant of marriage but will endure forever. As God called out His message to His people Israel through a widowed prophet, He longs for those who have turned away to return to Him now. Unashamed, pardoned, loved, and safe before His throne.
















