On Father's Day last year, our pastor shared wonderful anecdotes about his father. He mentioned a few lessons that remained with him over time, lessons for which he had his father to thank. Our pastor, Bryan, said he believes those things also have spiritual implications for all of us today. I couldn't agree more.
Bryan's dad taught him how to fight. Our Heavenly Father has taught each and every one of His children how to fight. Ephesians 6:10-20 encourages us to be strong, wear and apply and take up that which we have been given, and pray, pray, pray. We are, so long as we remain on this side of heaven, plagued by temptations and sinful urges; they are part and parcel of life in a world that is cursed. Standing fast, in the confidence of all Jesus has done for us and all His Spirit continues to do in us requires us to know and obey Scripture, and cling to our faith in Him, no matter what.
Bryan's dad taught him how to fish. I imagine his father telling him to be quiet, be patient. In Jesus' Great Commission to His disciples, He sends us into all the world, bringing others to the saving knowledge of Jesus and partnering with them as we walk out this portion of our lives together. As Jesus told Simon Peter and his brother, Andrew, we are to be fishers of men, not beating them over the head with Scriptures and theology, but gently, lovingly, patiently showing them the way, as we powerfully, earnestly pray!
Bryan's dad taught him how to work. They worked side-by-side in the garden and on cars; together they built things. Two things came to mind. First, His father was right there, laboring alongside him, teaching as they worked. Our Father sent us His Spirit; the Greek word is parakletos, One summoned to another's side, to aid, to comfort, and to lead us in our work. And that is the second reflection: we have been given work to do, the "ministry of reconciliation." As we have been reconciled to God through His Son, Jesus Christ, we are to bring others to meet Him that they might be reconciled as well. We are God's ambassadors, proclaiming the good news of His Kingdom.
Lastly, Bryan's dad taught him to run. He made him "feel like he could run like the wind," instilling tenacity and confidence in a young boy who would one day pastor diligently, faithfully an eclectic group of people, moving where God called him to move and serving how God called him to serve. With this lesson, his father taught him to "be the best you can be" -- not necessarily better than anyone else. Our journey is our journey; God has not called us all to the same thing. When God gave His Ten Commandments, they were strict and applied to every one of His people in the same way. When Jesus fulfilled the Law and the Prophets, God's commandments were expanded to two. Don't you mean reduced? No, I do not. Jesus' coming blew the doors off the way we worship our God. The possibilities are limited only by our ability to love, and God says we are to love with all we have. We have the Holy Spirit, the power to "run like the wind" if we are called to do so; and we need not be the best, we just have to obey.
God is gracious to give us earthly shadows of heavenly things. Our relationships with one another should be a sweet foretaste of how we will spend eternity. And we have our Father to thank.
Happy Fathers' Day!