In everything give thanks, for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.
1 Thessalonians 5:18
Be honest, have you ever, in your mind, under your breath, added a "BUT" after that? At some point, we probably all have. Let me draw your attention to Psalm 30:1-3. Robert Alter, in his translation, renders these verses this way:
I shall exalt You, LORD, for You drew me up,
and You gave no joy to my enemies.
LORD, my God,
I cried to You and You healed me.
LORD, You brought me up from Sheol,
gave me life from those gone down to the pit.
In his commentary, Alter says a) drew me up is as water from the dark depths of a well, and b) gave me life from those gone down to the pit suggests that of all who go down to death, he alone was raised to life. What a picture of grace! Of God's sovereign work in calling us, but in drawing us as well! I often joke that our dog is an obedience school dropout. Truthfully, I am the dropout. The behaviors I never enforced or continued to practice diligently with her have, to her, become optional. Come! is one of those commands. However, if I were to begin reinforcing this, going back to the basics and making it worth her while to come (IOW: luring her with treats), Luci would readily obey. It's not enough to call her, until she is reminded of what benefits lie in being with me, I must draw her.
God's calling us is an act of mercy; putting our names on His roll call from before we were even conceived. But His act of drawing us takes things to a whole other level! With Luci, the command to Come! could save her from danger. The command to Come! could be very beneficial to her when followed by treats or scratches or a ride in the car. Her name is on my roll, she is mine; but in calling her, drawing her to me, even luring her --making acquiescence worth her while, I am blessing her and saving her from danger. Does she have the option to refuse? Certainly. But as her guardian and friend, I am going to do everything in my power to make coming to me irresistible! This is God's sovereign grace for His chosen! Out of His great mercy, He has called us to be His; by His grace, He draws us that we might know His infinite goodness and be saved from eternal death.
I cried to You and You healed me. I'm not sure we have the capacity in our language, or perhaps in general, to express what I think is going on here. We --especially in Western culture --have this underlying attitude of autonomy; we imagine we are sovereign. We cry out, and God reacts. But we are not sovereign, and God does not react. To react means that someone or something has provoked a response; control lies with the initial actor. If that is the case, what about the concepts of calling and drawing that surround this verse? How can God draw us from Hell, but when it comes to healing the common cold, we launch Him into action with our petitions?
I had cancer. I don't ever recall praying for God to heal me in that time, yet He did. Now, I'm gonna be honest, I know He healed me. Do I feel it was God and God alone? Do I feel this great act of mercy imparted to me? No, I don't. I believe, that by not praying for healing, I missed the boat. My brain knows it was God, but what the hardness of my heart says is, it was a very treatable form of cancer and caught very early in the game. It is God who is sovereign --not doctors or cancer, but my heart was not conditioned through prayer to receive that. Have you prayed for every hangnail or backache you've ever had? Probably not, yet you've been healed. We all mentally chalk these things up to the way our bodies work. Hangnails aren't forever. Backaches, hopefully, only last a day or so. No big deal, right? But prayer, crying out to God positions us in a place of surrender and nearness to Him as we endure the pain and inconvenience of those "ordinary" ailments. I cried out to You because You allowed this illness, and it was a glorious opportunity to be nearer to You than I would have been without it; and You healed me. Prayer also prepares our hearts and minds to give God the glory when we are healed. Because I cried out to You, I know You alone healed me. This is so much more than a response! This is a sovereign God using everything in His power to draw us because He has called us! In everything give thanks!
If we belong to the Sovereign God who put us here, there is no reason to place a "BUT" after the imperative of giving thanks. He has called us; He uses whatever means necessary to draw us. He doesn't respond to our requests as though we are switching on a light; we respond to Him because He has touched our hearts. In His presence, we can know the joy and safety of being near Him, and we can give Him thanks exhaustively!