If you see a line, get in it. Apparently, this is a good thing, because they might be giving something away... or you might be at the post office.
"But,I'm not socializing during class; I'm just talking!" Apparently, to a 10-year old, socializing involves cocktails and cigarette holders -- and that just doesn't happen 'til 7th grade.
"Can I throw a party with fake alcohol to see how many people will act wasted?" Wow. The mom in me says "no," but the scientist in me says, "Would we actually need a mole to get the ball rolling? Say, someone who walks around saying, 'Man, those drinks are so good, you don't even feel it 'til you get up!'"
You can "poke" someone too many times on Facebook.
A genuine "You make my day fun and bright," is ten times better than a routine "I love you."
"Man, Nan, you ate some of everything except the pierogies!" "That's because I didn't see them."
"Hi, Mom!" said by a 20-year old I haven't seen in over a year! :-)
After a five minute lecture on boredom, and whining because we're bored, and being bored because no one will play with us... "You can't depend on others to make you happy. What will you do when you're on your own and you have no one but you to make you smile?" "Get a cat?" I try, God knows I try.
Saturday, February 19, 2011
Thursday, February 17, 2011
Decisions, Decisions...
"I think I'm being punished," she said.
"Really? How?"
"Well, I think God wanted me to buy the house on Rosewood instead of the house on Juniper. Everything's gone wrong since I signed the papers."
Where does God’s will end, and man’s freedom of choice begin?
Who among us would want our children to love us because we said so? How successful can we expect a relationship to be if it is built on fear, obligation or a lack of better options? God didn’t want automatic servitude and obedience, He wanted relationship. He created our minds -- pretty absurd to think He did not want us to use them! Free will starts with our ability to reject or serve Him, but the truth is, God’s will shall be accomplished whether we are “in the boat," or not. I will tell you, the benefits to being a sailor over a swimmer are enormous!
“God does not wish to see any of his children suffer, or do without, or stray,” doesn’t mean they won’t – any more than saying that of our own children doesn’t mean they won’t; sometimes allowing our children a little hardship is the best lesson. Difference is, God has the power to change the tide, and the sovereignty to decide how, when, or if He will.
What about our choices? A job with a corner office over the job with a key to the executive washroom? A hike in the park with my family over reading God’s Word in the back yard? Personally, and perhaps with some cowardice, that’s when I believe the truth lies somewhere in between. If we are listening when He speaks, walking where He leads, following when He beckons, living how He commands, then thinking of Him as being outsmarted or disappointed by the child who chooses a shih tzu over a poodle limits Him to humanity’s providence and justice. The key is to be at one with Him, in daily fellowship with Him, desiring to honor and live for Him, and trusting Him wherever the journey leads.
Wednesday, February 16, 2011
Woke Up to Write This!
‘It is futile to serve God. What do we gain by carrying out his requirements and going about like mourners before the LORD Almighty? But now we call the arrogant blessed. Certainly evildoers prosper, and even when they put God to the test, they get away with it.’
“On the day when I act,” says the LORD Almighty, “they will be my treasured possession. I will spare them, just as a father has compassion and spares his son who serves him. And you will again see the distinction between the righteous and the wicked, between those who serve God and those who do not.
-- Malachi 3:14,15,17,18
What words of encouragement! A promise straight from Our Lord! Faithful, when your road becomes long and your journey tiresome; when your feet are weary and your efforts seem all for naught, remember God counts you as His own. It matters not what others say and do in this life, for God has dominion over all! Lay your treasure up in the next life, and be encouraged that God knows all and keeps His promises!
“On the day when I act,” says the LORD Almighty, “they will be my treasured possession. I will spare them, just as a father has compassion and spares his son who serves him. And you will again see the distinction between the righteous and the wicked, between those who serve God and those who do not.
-- Malachi 3:14,15,17,18
What words of encouragement! A promise straight from Our Lord! Faithful, when your road becomes long and your journey tiresome; when your feet are weary and your efforts seem all for naught, remember God counts you as His own. It matters not what others say and do in this life, for God has dominion over all! Lay your treasure up in the next life, and be encouraged that God knows all and keeps His promises!
Tuesday, February 15, 2011
Praying... For You
I’ve mentioned before how much I appreciated the book, “In the Land of Believers,” by Gina Welch. If not, I’m mentioning it now. There is real benefit to seeing yourself as others see you.
One of the things Gina addresses in her book is prayer: “If it was God’s will, wouldn’t it just happen, since God was in charge?” In other words, why pray? If God's will is to be accomplished, how can we know what that is? I mean, how do we know we're not praying for something contrary to what God desires? And why even waste time rooting for a horse in a fixed race?
Prayer is about relationship. At the risk of simplifying things, allow me to offer this. Each year, Scott and I ask the girls what they want for Christmas or birthdays -- for a number of reasons:
1) Things have been mentioned or spotted throughout the year, but it’s the things they really want, that make the list. God wants to know the things that are most precious to us. By knowing what is on the hearts of the girls we learn much about their personalities, their likes and dislikes, and even areas in which we might channel more of their time – acting lessons for the one who repeatedly requests “dress up” clothes, a trip to the art museum for the one who loves paints. Now that's not to say God needs prayer to lean about us, God knows the desires of our heart, but He desires for us to recognize those things as ways in which we can serve and honor Him most.
2) We want the girls to feel comfortable enough to share with us their ideas, goals, and longings. It’s sort of a “relationship check,” knowing they feel close enough, confident enough, and safe enough to tell us what’s really important to them. God wants us to approach His throne with confidence, to feel safe with Him, and to be as close in relationship to Him as possible.
3) Talking to them – about anything – keeps the lines open and shows them we genuinely desire relationship with them. God knows all. Prayer is not His way of “keeping up with the latest dirt.” Prayer keeps us talking – and listening – to Him, frequently. I absolutely abhor those annoying Christmas letters that people began substituting for heartfelt wishes several years ago. “I don’t hear from you all year, and because it’s Christ’s birthday you send me a five page disquisition about your family and all the wonderful things you’ve done over the last 365 days? Why?” Real relationship, we were made for it.
4) "The List" changes them. Believe it or not. Throughout the years, we've watched them go from the most outrageous of requests to items completely within our budget, items perfectly permissible, and items "worthy of a wish." We've not only learned about them, but they have learned about us. They know we will not buy them junk that breaks within fifteen minutes of opening -- no matter how badly they want it. We will not neglect our responsibilities to fund their whims. They know what will and will not receive approval. As a child, my prayers were of reversing a bad grade I’d already gotten on my report card; I’d like to think my relationship with God has matured (partially through prayer) since then. I'd like to think I've learned a little more about His will.
Our time in prayer is an intimate conversation, an honest dialogue for the purpose of strengthening a relationship, the most important relationship we can have.
One of the things Gina addresses in her book is prayer: “If it was God’s will, wouldn’t it just happen, since God was in charge?” In other words, why pray? If God's will is to be accomplished, how can we know what that is? I mean, how do we know we're not praying for something contrary to what God desires? And why even waste time rooting for a horse in a fixed race?
Prayer is about relationship. At the risk of simplifying things, allow me to offer this. Each year, Scott and I ask the girls what they want for Christmas or birthdays -- for a number of reasons:
1) Things have been mentioned or spotted throughout the year, but it’s the things they really want, that make the list. God wants to know the things that are most precious to us. By knowing what is on the hearts of the girls we learn much about their personalities, their likes and dislikes, and even areas in which we might channel more of their time – acting lessons for the one who repeatedly requests “dress up” clothes, a trip to the art museum for the one who loves paints. Now that's not to say God needs prayer to lean about us, God knows the desires of our heart, but He desires for us to recognize those things as ways in which we can serve and honor Him most.
2) We want the girls to feel comfortable enough to share with us their ideas, goals, and longings. It’s sort of a “relationship check,” knowing they feel close enough, confident enough, and safe enough to tell us what’s really important to them. God wants us to approach His throne with confidence, to feel safe with Him, and to be as close in relationship to Him as possible.
3) Talking to them – about anything – keeps the lines open and shows them we genuinely desire relationship with them. God knows all. Prayer is not His way of “keeping up with the latest dirt.” Prayer keeps us talking – and listening – to Him, frequently. I absolutely abhor those annoying Christmas letters that people began substituting for heartfelt wishes several years ago. “I don’t hear from you all year, and because it’s Christ’s birthday you send me a five page disquisition about your family and all the wonderful things you’ve done over the last 365 days? Why?” Real relationship, we were made for it.
4) "The List" changes them. Believe it or not. Throughout the years, we've watched them go from the most outrageous of requests to items completely within our budget, items perfectly permissible, and items "worthy of a wish." We've not only learned about them, but they have learned about us. They know we will not buy them junk that breaks within fifteen minutes of opening -- no matter how badly they want it. We will not neglect our responsibilities to fund their whims. They know what will and will not receive approval. As a child, my prayers were of reversing a bad grade I’d already gotten on my report card; I’d like to think my relationship with God has matured (partially through prayer) since then. I'd like to think I've learned a little more about His will.
Our time in prayer is an intimate conversation, an honest dialogue for the purpose of strengthening a relationship, the most important relationship we can have.
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